Rules, Terminology, and FAQ.

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Nov 7, 2017
Rules and Terminology (Updated Mar. 22nd)


Note: The following definitions avoid subjective terms (physical appearance for example) to separate users neatly.
  • Incel (Allowed): Person who is not in a relationship nor has had sex in a significant amount of time, despite numerous attempts.
  • Truecel (Allowed): Type of incel who hasn't ever had sex or been in a relationship, despite numerous attempts.
  • Mentalcel (Allowed): Type of incel whose reason for failure in relationships/sex is related to mental illness or major insecurities. [1]
  • Volcel (Allowed): Person who, for various reasons, is abstinent and does not engage in sex. [1]
  • Blackpilled (Conditional): Person who is none of the above but has a blackpilled mentality. [1]
  • Female (Not Allowed): Banned on sight, no exceptions.
  • Fakecel (Not Allowed): Person who claims to be incel but has recently had sex or been in a relationship.
[1] Bragging of any sort, including humble-bragging, WILL constitute a heavy warning or ban. In practice this person should be indistinguishable from incels. Keep your successful experiences with females to yourself.


The following are NOT okay:
  • Bluepills: While disagreeing is allowed, pushing bluepilled ideology to the community is not.
  • Targeted attacks: Persecution or bullying of other users is not allowed.
  • Trolling: Posting bait, purposely triggering threads to create reactions is not allowed.
  • Bragging: This is a forum for incels, mentioning romantic or sexual experiences can mean a warning/ban, unless there is a good reason for them. Humble-bragging isn't allowed.
  • Low-effort / Spam: Don't make pointless threads. Don't post all the time in caps. Don't spam.
  • Disallowed Threads:
    1. Worship.
    2. Traps.
    3. "Rate me/him/her" (There is a Megathread in Offtopic forum)
    4. "Would you do her?" / "If you wouldn't do her you're X" / "Only X would do her!".
    5. "Why was X banned / warned?"
    6. Discussion of illegal activities. There's a difference, for example, between "I wish X died" and "I'm going to kill X".
  • White-knighting : Disagreeing is allowed, but not white-knighting.
  • Forums: Post in the right forum. Offtopic is for anything that isn't inceldom-related, and Feedback for all that has to do with the site.
  • Avatars & Signatures: NSFW images, personal selfies, and female worship are not allowed.
  • Violent Content and Pornography: Must carry a [NSFW] tag if it's a new thread. Must be in spoiler tags if it's a post.
  • Necroposting: While you can post in old threads, please avoid reviving dead ones (Last reply > 1 month ago).
  • Alternate Accounts: Using alts to avoid a ban or suspension in your main account will result in a ban for both.
  • Misbehaving: We are against censorship, but mods will delete content and give warnings/bans if necessary.

FAQ - Frequently Asked Questions

-What is an "Incel"? I have no idea what all of this is about.
Read this thread:

-Is there an official Discord?
Yes, you can join using the link in the navigation bar at the top, or with this link:

-Why can't I send PM's?
As a spam prevention measure, accounts with less than 5 posts can't send PM's.

-How do I change the theme?
Scroll to the bottom left of the page and you'll see a button to do so.
There's four: Light, Dark, Classic, and Incognito.

-Can I change my username?
No, but you are free to create a new account.

-How do ranks and stars work?
You earn one star per 100 posts, up to 5 stars.
Once you get 500 posts, your rank and color changes, and you reset to one star again.
Notice that for each rank you need to have been registered one extra week on the site, this is so spamming to skip ranks isn't possible.
You can see all ranks in the Members section's sidebar.

-I have more than X posts, why hasn't my user color changed?
If you have the post count + registered time required, simply be patient; the 'upgrade' process runs every hour.

-How do I change the tag under my username?
From your preferences panel.

-How do I change my alert preferences?
Same. From your preferences panel.

-How do I get alerts from a certain thread?
At the top right of every thread there's a button that says "Watch".
If you want to Watch a particular thread without having to post, simply click the button.
By changing your alert preferences, you can automatically Watch threads after you post in a thread, or after you create a thread.

-Who are the mods and admin?
Check the Members section.

-Can I block a user that is annoying / I don't like?
Yes. Click on their username, followed by the button "Ignore".

-How do I close my account?
We do not delete accounts nor mass-delete content.
PM a mod to get a voluntary ban.

-What happens if I am banned?
Your posting privileges will be taken away, and you won't be able to start PM conversations.
If you feel your ban was unfair, you can post an appeal in the "Ban Appeal" section.

-How can I stay safe online?
The same way you do anywhere else: Don't post personal information (Real name, address, phone, email, pictures, etc), unless you are comfortable exposing that information to the whole internet.

-Can I edit / delete my posts and threads?
Posts: You have a 1 hour window to edit / delete them.
Threads: You have a 1 hour window to edit them, but you can't delete them, as good discussions are sometimes lost.
You can always ask a Mod to remove content if you really need it gone.

-Why was X warned / banned?
We don't respond to such inquiries anymore, due to the big amount of warnings / bans we issue, the fact they are personal, private, issued by different mods for different, complex reasons, and are time consuming to explain.
If you wish to know you are free to PM the user in question, though know that his is not an official statement.

-Why are X type of users allowed? They should be banned!
Our rules clear and well defined, that is why they work. If you have feedback feel free to post in the Feedback forum or send us a proposed change, we're always open to new ideas.

-Is the only way to access the site? will always be the main domain, but we have others you can use: (No 's' at the end)
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